Nobody likes you when you're depressed.
Plain and simple. We can talk all day about mental health and how important it is, but the moment you are depressed, people start to distance themselves. They see you as negative, a burden, and someone too heavy to handle.
A man can spend the whole day at his in-laws house without lifting a finger, and nobody thinks twice about it. A woman walks into her in-laws house and people start expecting her to cook, clean, and prove she’s a “good wife.” Why are the standards so different?
One time I was hanging out with white folk and they were all planning a trip to Japan, and I was like "I can't go I don't have money" and they were like "Dude just ask your parents"