“The biggest lesson i learned this year is to not force anything; conversations, relationship, friendships, attention and love. Anything forced is not worth fighting for. What ever flows flows. What ever crashes crashes. It is what it is.”
Funny how men say, “Not all men are the same,” but the moment their gf has a male friend, suddenly it’s, “I know how all men think.”
Just an observation lol.
You can have so many people around you, but if your peace keeps getting messed up, what’s the point? Sometimes protecting your peace means keeping your circle small.
Sometimes you realize as you get older, your circle doesn’t need to grow, it needs to get real. The smaller your circle gets, the more you see who truly matters and who genuinely belongs in your life.
Ooh so I just found that decide comes from the Latin decidere meaning “to cut off.” No wonder choices feel so heavy… you’re cutting off other paths. Hahayy