best thing i did this year was stop being a good friend. sounds crazy but i was too attentive, too quick to show up, spreading myself too thin for so many people and having none of that same energy reciprocated when needed. i love just worrying about myself now.
anytime I have ignored my intuition, I was the only one negatively impacted in the end so yeah.. your intuition is your protection.. always, always, always, honour your gift
Self-love is also respecting yourself and mastering the art of saying "no thank you" and "f*ck off" to the people, places, and things that do not serve you – mentally, emotionally, physically, or financially.
No one knows what they’re doing. Nobody. Not even the ones with degrees, and big job titles, and more things than you. Not even the people on your vision board. Everyone is just trying loudly, failing loudly, and trying again. And so should you.
too many pretty girls with so much potential worrying about a bum ass dude. wake up!! YOU ARE LITERALLY A WALKING PORTAL THAT CREATES LIFE!!!!! YOU ARE LITERAL MAGIC!!! CREATION, DIVINE!! START ACTING LIKE IT!!!!!
It’s weird how some ppl act when you’re self aware. They act like it means you think you know everything and have this godly foresight, whole time you just vibin and adjusting to life as you see fit lol.
I’ve calmed down so much with age. There are ways I’ve handled people in the past that I could never do again. It’s so not me anymore. Makes you trust in the ability of people to change when you see it in yourself.
this lady on tik tok said “it’s important to develop strong self beliefs so you don’t internalize other peoples opinions of you” & i think that’s so true you gotta be aware, intentional & stand firm on who you are so much so no one can manipulate you.
start checking yourself. start correcting yourself when you’re being unnecessarily negative. start minding your business when you realize you’re policing someone’s choices that don’t have anything to do with you. hold yourself accountable for goals you keep procrastinating on
Feeling love and attraction for someone is the easy part. Learning how to display that love and attraction without your trauma getting in the way HAS to be an intentional process that could take multiple relationships over time to work through and understand.
It’s ok to learn.
Some people are late bloomers b/c they didn’t think they were going to be here. How can someone plan for a future they never saw? Give yourself and others grace. Release the guilt of not having it all together yet. A lot of people are living life for the first time.
Learning how to leave people alone and go on with your life is a needed skill. Master it. If they need space and time, give it to them. Don't force anything. What flows, flows. What crashes, crashes. Trust the divine unfolding of the Universe. The best things happen unexpectedly.