janelle here! im majoring in civil engineering, currently in my 5th semester.
This account is aimed towards helping me to have a better and clear roadmap for my study progress ٩(ˊᗜˋ*)و
gw sama kk kadang tanktopan celana pendek dirumah, my dad never complained except when we had like wardrobe malfunction, he'd tell us to fix it thats it.
Gue pake tanktop + celana pendek = godain bokap
Gue pake makeup = godain bokap
It never occurred in mi mum's head that we live in a tropical country or I just want to have fun with makeup. Freak banget cewek2 m4le centered ini.
"You're so hot when you're angry" congrats girl he doesn't take you seriously and he is not listening. It's not cute, it is dismissive and he sees you as an inferior object.
its giving like they see my sister itu diri mereka dulu, mungkin berat bgt dlu ya jdi anak sulung, hence favoring my sister over me sbg mekanisme to appease their inner child. pdhl itu sgt counterproductive to the other child.
discourse anak sulung, tengah, bungsu is smth that i've alwys wanted to give my two cents abt. i've seen lots of us love to paint ourselves as a victim, and how each of these teams trying to one up each other in terms of who r mostlikely to get neglected.
and as middle child who grew up often feeling unheard, invalidated i gotta say this is really depend on the upbringing. both my parents they were anak sulung before they are parents, and the way they seem to always favor my sis against me growing up-
they value connection as much as u guys value sEx, sex and sex. even the way you refer to women as "gender sebelah" (very dehumanizing term) only goes to show that you and the list of ppl who agree with you treat women as object not human beings.
yeah no shit cus women don't view men like theyre some object to toy with, or to sexualize. hence the conversation is never about sex, or d1h spt pembahasan diantara gender kalian. that gender sebelah they value connection more than u guys do.
People demonize reactivity so bad which is rooted in spiritual and moral superiority btw, they think the all good/ positive which is secretly passive and cowardice is superior but it dehumanize you I hate this so bad
udh bebrapa x jg ditolak rs. didn't blame them but yeah the fact that mrk udh siap klo mungkin tindakan mereka bisa mempertaruhkan nyawa pasien lain is js idk.. makanya 'umum' sebenarnya lebih dianjurkan tp ya the med expenses could be worth the payout u make in one yr or more..
i think working as a doctor or other health-related job is kinda scary despite the amount of payout u'd earn, cus being exposed to human deaths, organs like almost everyday desentizes you, makes u lose your empathy gradually. idk this thought came into my mind.