Itโs actually super easy to pass and still be a clearly safe person for women and youโre kinda weird for being comfortable with benefiting from misogyny
@sleepy_shivers@virilized In our lived experiences that makes our stories so unique&important. It gets easier but you have to give yourself the time&space for it to doso. Which is why going from the left to the right is so important because once you let go of the hate&anger it truly becomes so much easier
@sleepy_shivers@virilized Thatโs true, but I will say once you get further into your transition (socially, medically etc, however that looks for you) it does make that acceptance a lot easier. It doesnโt disappear, it might not ever, but thatโs the double edged sword of being trans. There is beauty & pain
@meowdyke Funniest part was that I was just doomscrolling but was going to comment regardless but then I realized who it was and I was waiting I do actually have stakes in this PLS
@AmarxistPhil@TrevrHaydn oh my gosh this sucks soooooo bad but i lowkey feel you, in similar fashion, i preordered a signed one too and wasnโt able to read it right away only to loose all of my belongings during a move because my father didnโt pay the storage unit bills๐ฅฒ