Do not let people gaslight you into thinking that duality does not exist. You can be grateful and annoyed. You can want more and be grateful for what you have. You can be angry and frustrated and still be grateful. A lot of religious and spiritual gaslighting out here.
One of the darkest things a person with unhealed trauma will do is actively sabotage a peaceful relationship just to feel a sense of control.
When you grow up in chaotic environments, peace feels like a trap. You are constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop, and the suspense becomes agonizing. To relieve that anxiety, you will subconsciously pick a fight, create a massive issue out of thin air, or push your partner away. You blow up the relationship yourself because navigating a disaster you created feels much safer and more familiar than navigating a peace you don't know how to trust.
you never run out of things to talk about with your soulmate. when someone is meant for you, even the most random things become interesting to each other.
text them, "look at this weird shaped potato i found" and they'll be just as invested as you are 😭
Bendinikwe imali to buy new glasses because my medical aid won’t cover them. Decided to get a new wig instead and got scammed. Now I don’t have a wig and I can’t see😔