I think it also boils down to upbringing. The kind of values parents set in their children matter a lot. Imagine having a daughter who brags about what a man does for her more than what her own father or herself does. This is one of the reasons I said parents should save and invest in their kids.
If you go through the comment section on this post, it will just make you sad. Most of the people supporting the mischievous @SavvyRinu are making foolish arguments.
Every sensible person knows that back in the day in Lagos, there was no hostility or division between Christians and Muslims. My own step sister is a Christian. Our family has been like that for the past 25 years.
Muslims going to a Christian school was a very normal thing. There are many Christians who went to Ansar-ud-Deen College at the time and nobody made it a big deal.
And do not be surprised that they made me the Headboy. I merited it. My CV was too irresistible. I won the school's first ever election, I had the best results, I broke records no male student have ever had, and by God, I had 97% votes from my teachers. A.Y.O was a special boy, just like my lovely teacher would always say.
Back to the point, the major difference between a Muslim dominated school and a Christian one is that a Muslim authority will never force you to worship with them. They will allow you to separate yourself and stand aside.
In a Christian school, they will force you to sing and dance Jesus is Lord when you don’t believe he is lord. That is pure compulsion. If not for the politics I played back then, they would not have given us a chance to stay away from church activities. Thanks to our Yoruba teacher, she was a courageous woman.
I was forced to sing praise and worship for 5 solid years before I became the headboy. That would never happen to a Christian boy in a Muslim school.
The world has seen who is truly intolerant of other people's beliefs. Do not blur the lines. The wind has blown, and the fowl's rump is out in the open.
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The internal pullback showed itself ✅Second chance to trim now here ✅
Alright! just an FYI that I trimmed this level for the ones that missed the first trim, since I posted late due to circumstances as stated last post.
I do apologize for that once again. But as mentioned, if you missed it, I said don't trim as I promised we would only receive an internal pullback and a move back up.
The market listened, and so here is the chance again to trim the same chance I do.
So if you haven't already, I now recommend to do so (NFA), on our glorious longs, and the road not many are expecting, the to 66k.
I thank you for watching and I wish you a great end of the week.
Every single day you’ll find that Nigerian women who claim to be different from actual prostitutes are in relationships primarily to be read or understood by a guy to know when they need “things”.
One was in Sir Dickson’s anonymous complaining about how her boyfriend should have been offering to pay her t-fare every time she visits. Meanwhile, he hosts her and ensures she’s fine when she comes. And when he visits her, he still spends and it never crosses her mind to him t-fare.
Nigerian are in relationships to be spoilt and taken care of. They don’t care if a guy is a student, they don’t care if he’s their mate, they don’t care if he has other commitments, they care less if he’s just stating his career, all they are interested in their relationships is that they are spent on.
They believe as women, their money should be used solely to look good and saved, while a man’s money should go into making them comfortable.
The concept of sacrificing and giving to a man is alien to most of them.
And while I often want to fault men who patronize models, I’ve genuinely come to understand them!!!
You’re better off patronizing actual models than lying to yourself you’re in a love relationship that would cease to exist if something were to happen to your finances.
Of a truth, the average Nigerian woman is a money-sexual haw!!!
As a man, when the options present & it is time for you to choose a partner, I hope you choose the soft babe.
The one whose consistent demeanor is '🥹'
The one gentle in expression, kind in communication & non combative.
Leave komodo dragons alone for animal control.
Don’t let any woman pressure you especially when it comes to money. You don’t owe any woman your finances and you don’t need to prove your worth by spending money or trying to impress her with money.
I personally dislike this idea of suffering with a man. How do you mean? Two people in a relationship and it’s one person who suffered? What stopped her from making it too??
Imam al-Ghazali in his great book Ihya’ Ulum al-Din described six types of women we MUST not marry as men if we want to live a good married life. This Gen-Z wife matches two out of the six: Al-Ananatu and Al-Baraqatu.
This Gen-Z wife is the perfect example of Ananatu. A woman who finds the natural responsibilities of marriage to be an undue burden and constantly voices her reluctance to fulfill them.
On the other end, she mirrors Al-Baraqatu. A woman who spends all her time grooming herself to an obsessive degree. Also, the one who shows anger and act superior over her husband. He has to wash my clothes yen yen yen 😂😂
May we not make mistake of marrying them in our lives 🙏🙏😩
Anyone who is home all day and expects the one away from home all day to come home to cook, is not a good person.
The responsibility is on who is home to cater to all. It is supposed to be common sense.
The idea of suffering with a man will just never make sense to me and like I always say: no woman born of a man and woman will use that line for me, ever.