A warning to all men.If you marry wrong, you will suffer.
Don't be a fool.Don't be a simp.Don't let your lust drive you into a lifetime of misery.
Marry a bad woman, and you will curse your own existence.
_Don't marry a woman who never watched her mother cook happily for her husband.
-Don't marry a woman who never saw her mother wash her husband's clothes, sweep the floor for him, make his bed, and treat him like a king.
-Don't marry a woman who never saw her mother respect, honor, and submit to her husband.If she never witnessed her mother serving a man, she will not serve you.She will fight you.She will challenge you.She will rebel against you.
Such women have no training and no blueprint on how to be a wife.They have been programmed to compete with men.
Marry her, and you will live a nightmare.Your life will burn to ashes.Avoid women raised by single mothers, divorced homes, and broken backgrounds.
These women are filled with bitterness, trauma, and a deep hatred for men.They see men as oppressors, not leaders.
They are raised to think like men, act like men, compete like men, but expect to be treated like queens.
These are the same women who will divorce you, take your children, take your money, and leave you in https://t.co/sZbjCDwv1r not ignore this warning.
Vet her background. Watch how she talks about men.See if she values marriage or just wants a wedding.Because here's the cold truth.A fruit does not fall far from the tree.
A disrespectful mother raises a disrespectful daughter.A rebellious mother breeds a rebellious daughter.A man-hating mother creates a man-destroying daughter.
A woman raised in a house of chaos will bring chaos to your home.A woman raised in a house of war will make your life a war zone.A woman who never saw marriage work will never make marriage work.
This is not a game it is life or death.
Your husband is the only person who ever loved you purely by choice.
Your family was already written into your story.
Parents loved you because you were theirs.
Siblings stayed because you shared blood.
Even your child is there because you’re the mother.
But your husband walked in as a complete stranger.
No obligation.
No duty.
No shared past.
He could have built a life with anyone else.
Yet he chose you.
Chose to grow old with you.
Chose to call you home.
That kind of love is never automatic.
It is a daily, deliberate decision to stay, especially when it’s hard.
So never forget to thank the man who still chooses you every single day.
Dear Husband,
A woman does not decide to be your wife and choose to be faithful because you are Mr. Perfect. She is faithful because she is a woman of character.
She chooses you every day because she honours her vows, even on the days you are difficult to love. She protects your home because that is the kind of woman she decided to become, it's not because you have never given her reasons to do otherwise.
But don't mistake her character for a reason to become careless.
Don't assume that because she is not the type to cheat, she no longer needs your affection and don't believe that because she stays, she no longer needs to be pursued.
A woman can remain loyal while slowly withdrawing her heart.
Nature does not tolerate empty spaces. If you stop investing in your marriage, she may not seek another man, as a lot of people are quick to think, but she will find somewhere else to pour herself. She may bury herself in work, lose herself in motherhood, devote herself to church or build a life where you are no longer at the centre of her joy.
One day, you may wake up to realise that she is still your wife, but no longer your closest companion.
Don't let it get that far. It doesn't have to.
Listen when she speaks, especially when her words make you uncomfortable. Notice the sacrifices she no longer mentions. Thank her for the things that have become so normal you barely see them anymore.
Hold her hand for no reason. Laugh with her. Pray with her. Date her long after the wedding. Make memories she will still smile about twenty years from now.
Become the safest place she knows.
A loyal wife is one of God's greatest gifts to a man, but even the strongest marriages do not thrive on loyalty alone.
Strong marriages thrive on intentional love, mutual honour, daily kindness and the decision to keep choosing each other every single day.
Meet her loyalty with your own.
Meet her commitment with presence.
Meet her love with firm leadership that serves, not one that controls.
Do that consistently, and your marriage will become a place where two imperfect people make each other feel secure in a world that offers very little certainty.
Something many people spend a lifetime searching for.
Have an amazing Sunday.
Let me say this to married men.
If you lose your job and you have some savings that you want to use to start a business so as to sustain your family.
Please do not invest in your wife's business with the hope that it would bring in more money to be sustaining the home.
Go and look for something to do with your savings to be providing for your family by yourself.
You don't invest in your wife's business when you do not have yours.
Unless she is willing to make you a share holder and have control over what happens in the business.
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A retired marriage counselor revealed what makes wives lose respect and attraction to the husband they once chased.
He said: "It's usually 8 silent behaviors men repeat daily."
Every man should hear this…..
You're providing for your wife, and sometimes, she disrespects you.
Then imagine when you can no longer provide?
Especially when the kids are still young.
Your wife may not necessarily cheat on you because you can no longer provide.
But you'll never deny that you will not notice the silent but loud disrespect & lack of submission that you'll experience.
Some wives have more patience than others.
Some may be lean, and others may be fat.
But what is more important for you as a man, is that you hold on to God and ask him to show you mercy, and change your situation before the disrespect becomes loud and bold.
If you are banking on the hope that she will "love" you, just as you love her, you'll be shocked.
Women don't love men.
They are only in love with what you can provide for them.
And this is why I keep telling you young men that transactional relationships are unhealthy.
Women will always love money.
But how you dated her, molded her without money, would go a long way in saving your marriage, should the unfortunate happen to you.
And almost every man would witness downtimes in his finances.
It could be early in your marriage or late in your marriage.
If it happens late in your marriage, do not think that your wife would continue to remember all your years of sacrificing and providing for her, till forever.
At some point, she would run out of patience, and you would start to experience another side of her.
So, what do you do as a man, when things go south for you?
First, if you're jobless as a married man, stop sitting at home.
Go out to wherever to find something to do to bring little money.
Even if the money is not enough to provide for the needs of your wife and kids.
Walka for nothing better pass to sidon for nothing.
Second, swallow your pride, and do not turn down any job offers because you feel it's beneath you.
As long as the job is legitimate, it would keep your mind and soul hopeful and would make your wife see you as that man that believes in providing for his family, even if what you're providing is not enough.
Thirdly, accept that certain things wound change in the dynamics of your home. But as long as your wife has not crossed the red line, remain in your marriage and be a father to your kids.
If your wife wants to use her hands to ruin the marriage because you're no longer the major provider, let it be her decision.
Lastly, if your wife decides to support you without rubbing it on your face, learn to appreciate her, but always remind her that what she's doing for you is a debt.
Even if you may never be able pay the debt.
Like I said, everything that you would witness in your marriage when it comes to finances, depend on how you led your wife during your relationship days.
Because that's the foundation.
Provision is a man's shield, and his ego is his weapon.
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A married man once told me to make sure I become very good friends with my wife.
He said that in marriage, love eventually fades.
Friendship is what keeps two people together when the feelings fizzle out.
I think about that conversation almost every day.
Dear married men,
Let me repeat.
If you know deep inside of your heart that, you're not maltreating your wife.
And she is always threatening to leave the marriage at the slightest provocation.
Please do not beg her or try to stop her if she eventually carries out the threat.
Do not go to beg her to return, either.
What is keeping her outside of her matrimonial home, is bigger than what will keep her inside of it.
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