It’s a really tough pill to swallow when you’re healing and realize people you love are not in alignment with you anymore. You can just feel the frequency change. It happens gradually. You don’t notice, until one day you do.
ppl don’t like assertiveness bc if you’re clear with them then that means they have to be clear and direct with themselves. and too many ppl are in a constant state of self avoidance. so passivity is more comfortable