Then she said, it’s not that people can’t change. It’s that you can’t treat them based off of what you think they can be, but what they show you they choose to be. She’s younger than me but quite wise imo. 🤷🏾♀️
My lil sis just turned 21. We were having a convo & I said something along the lines of “they’re better than that” & she said, “no, ppl are what they show u. That’s your optimism.” I’m stunned because my optimism is a “positive” quality. But maybe it creates delusions too.
@JRunnerSub5 @1anjohn I'm all for living with friends, but that should be a CHOICE, not something we're all forced into to survive. My last living situation was 5 people in a 3 bedroom, and we were barely making ends meet.