if dli ka sure , say it, if dli ka ready, express it,ayaw lang ipabati nga you care kung dli diay mao imong intention. People get hurt not because you didn't chose them, but because you made them believe they were being chosen.
Sometimes you might think okay lang to be half in and half out,pero para sa ilaha every message every gesture every little effort they see can feel meaningful. thats why you need to be honest and consistent.
kung dli pure imong intention ayaw hatagi og mixed signal ang usa ka tawo,kay once nga magpakita ka og lain laing energy maglisod sila og sabot unsa gyud imong tinuod nga tuyo. Its unfair to play with someones emotions,especially if nag expect sila nga klaro ug tinuod gaka feel.
At this point in life, unahon nako una ang mga butang nga naay tumong. Career. Goals. Growth. Mag-tigum, mag ampo. Wala nay oras balik-balikon pa ang mali nga binuhatan. Focus on stability, loyalty, and peace of mind kana ra. You'll never be this young again so make it count.