I have a spiritual belief that when you never see people who aren’t in your life anymore it’s a direct correlation of the frequency jump. You don’t see them because you’re no longer soaring through life on the same vibrations, and that’s why you could be neighbours and never see each other ever again.
being annoyed is the price you pay for community.
it means having guests when you'd rather be alone. it means letting someone live with you even when they get on your nerves. it means showing up for events that you'd rather not go to. it means turning the other cheek.
As a hyper independent girly (to a fault) I do not like asking for shit it makes me uncomfortable. That’s why I like men who just DO. Don’t ask, just figure out what I need/want and DO IT
people also get really weird when they can’t understand your multifaceted existence or the complexity of humans in general. when you’re a full spectrum of color but they think in black or white, they don’t know what to do.
It doesn’t matter how nice the house is, how much you have or grew up with. Or what your life looked like to other people. If there is a mean man in that house, it’s never as nice as it seems from the outside.