Tolerating a ngga always turns to resentment. At first, you call it patience, then love. But what it really is, is self-abandonment. Every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. And eventually, the bill comes due‼️😮💨💯
Some of the meanest men are not loud. They come wrapped in manners, soft voices, and fake patience. They gaslight. They manipulate. They project. They mentally exhaust you. The goal is to break you. Pay attention to his patterns…they always tell.
A cheating man is bad enough. But you know what's even worse? A man who pretends to be good, but in reality is a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim...
shaming women for loving men (who wear masks to disguise their poor character) instead of shaming men for having poor character is also internalized misogyny, btw.
hope this helps!