“Let me ask my partner” is actually deeply healthy in many scenarios and shows that the person values the input of their significant other. Y’all just don’t want to consider someone else and think being hyper independent and “you don’t own me!!!” Leads to a successful PARTNERship. Yes it’s dumb and can be controlling when it comes things like outfits or something. But if you aren’t ready to genuinely consider someone else’s feelings and input on an activity or event or whatever that realistically will impact you both, you aren’t ready for an adult partnership.
I swear once you find your person, no one even interests you anymore. like fr lol no one has the same vibe, no one matches ur energy as much as they do. everything is just better with them. and not just relationship wise, friendships as well.
c’est marrant le concept de la vie quand même tu viens au monde parce que deux adultes ont passé du bon temps ensemble et 22 ans plus tard tu te retrouves à devoir payer 86 euros un timbre fiscal