Just scream like a banshee while making direct eye contact. One time I was out with my friend at a bar and a man approached me and I just locked eyes with him and went “AHHHHHHHHHHHHH” and he goes “bitch what the fuck?” And walked away.
Men don’t give a shit if you have a man, bro code is nonexistent. But they do give a shit if you’re offputting and appear deranged.
I just went to get an IUD consultation at a gynecologist and she goes, we can do it here, but just so you know, we don't numb. We won't numb your cervix here. And I go, why? And she goes, because the doctor at this clinic doesn't allow it. And I said who is that doctor? She pointed towards a male gynaecologist & said “dear even if I request it, he won't allow it”. And then i asked that male gynaecologist why he won't allow it, he told me because apparently, according to him, that's actually not even where the pain's coming from. So it doesn't even make sense to numb the cervix. i said its painful and he replied “its a part of being a woman”