I dont think as men we talk enough about how this thing called heartbreak hits us. We can tell each other anga go to the gym,or Lock in,but thats not the reality. Ile kitu huwa inakutwanga unapoteza matumaini na maisha akiamungu. Appetite inapotea kama 2 weeks. Unajua heri wanawake wanaezalia alafu walale. Mwanaume ni unakesha kwa kitanda ukijipindua tu,like an exfoliating python.
Kuna mahali sasa ukiwa mjengo,flashback huwa sinakuja namna hii back to back,unaisha ata nguvu huwesi inua nyundo aki. The disappointment! Mimi kuna wakati karibu niangushe lorry ya kampuni thika road bwana. Mikono iliisha nguvu kapsaa. Alafu hatusaidianangi. I opened up to my brother about what that woman had done to me,then excused himself to go to the bathroom,I heard him laughing there
Wanaume anaye jua shida setu ni mtu mmoja tu,Mwokozi yesu christo. Hii watu ingine ni watu blarfakin!
And because they also dont teach this in unifasti vijana,I will. Theres nothing these women hate more than a single and searching man. They see you as a loser. Wanaonanga ukiwa very useless. Ndio maana kama mwanaume hufai kusema ama kuoneshana uko single. You have let her know you have options,but despite that,you have chosen to prioritize her more than these other options . These women want to have what is owned by others. It inflates their ego to think they’re better,or rather more beautiful
Ndio maana unapatanga ukiwa single umekaukiwa,lakini ukipata tu dem namna hii,warembo wanaanza kukuandama. And this is the reason also why married men are cheating more these days,sio kupenda kwao aki,ni demand wako nayo. Women are literally hunting them. Madem hawatakangi kuingia soko wajichagulie nyanya,wanataka ile mtu mwingine alichagua akajiwekea kwa kikapu. They think its better. Weh! Apana chesa na ii watu bwana
Yule anakosea vijana sana ni ule anawaambia waachane na wasichana,ati watafute pesa kwanza. That is a person who should be locked up in Shimo la tewa. You think life will wait for you to look for money and come back so that you can continue where you left off? Bwana there are things you must expirience when you are at that age to avoid dealing with them the hard way when your older. You must expirience love,betrayal,Honesty,Disrespect,Honor,Manipulation,Heartbreak,sacrifice,Pretence, and many more.
And do not beat yourself up now when you have nothing,remind yourself that if you will be worth loving tomorrow when you have something,then you are worth loving today. Na kama hujui kudanganyilia wasichana kama huna pesa,usidhani pesa itakuja na manual. You will be shocked to find that the only thing you’re doing then,is just affording to pay for high end hookers
Mimi kama nilifanikiwa kutoa mhindi loresho,nikamleta kangemi kwa nyumba ya mabati tunatumia stove,wewe uko juja huwesi shindwa kutafuta mjuja mwenzako. Ni muhimu upendwe ukiwa maskini,uskie vile inakuanga. Otherwise you will be one of these middle class men who send girlfriend allowance,ati na ukikosa anakasirika. Mtu anakuambia ati utafute pesa kwanza,hiyo ni mtu blarfakin kapsaa.
Will they teach you this in unifasti? I dont think so.
Khabusie!
As a peasant myself,I will tell you that I no longer feel sorry for my fellow poor people. Maskini ni mtu mjinga sana. And I mean this in the most respectful way. If you see the things that make the poor man happy,the things that excite him,the things that he chooses to focus on compared to that which he should be focusing on,unapatwa na huzuni sana. Maskini anaskia MP ameiba pesa ya bursary ya mtoto wake,lakini sunday MP anakuja centre na TV wanaona mpira pamoja. MP anapata picha za optics anarudi na TV yake nairobi,Maskini anawachwa na memory ya bao ya chelsea. Its very hard to help people who don’t even understand what better looks like.
Unfortunately When it comes to Ruto,mimi I dont call it political difference. If you support him, me and you have nothing meaningful to say to each other. Siasa nimeweka kwa roho mbaya sana,iko huko kwa Venacava