Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) has been a huge part of my founder journey, but it's relatively unknown outside of therapy circles...
...even though it's backed by 1000+ RCTs.
Excited to be able to share these ideas in this mega-post with @every
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Want to learn fast?
Stop being cheap with education:
Hire 1:1 coding mentors
Pay experts for their time
Book advisory calls
An hour with the right mentor
> 100 hours of tutorials
"I have to stay for the stock options"
Translation: "I'm scared to lose future money"
"I have to keep the team together"
Translation: "I'm scared to disappoint people"
Name the fear.
Make the choice.
Move forward.
The miracle question:
"If you woke up tomorrow
And your biggest problem was solved
What's the first thing you'd notice?"
Your answer reveals
Where you need to focus
The founder path:
Unlike law, medicine, or trades
No clear steps
No senior partners
No residency program
You're writing the playbook
While running the plays
In relationships you can:
• Chase understanding
• Demand attention
• Expect perfection
• Count what you get
Or you can:
• Give first
• Understand first
• Love first
The second path wins.
The longer you wait to test your idea:
• More attached you get
• More time you waste
• More fear builds up
• More excuses pile up
Kill your precious ideas quickly.
Build better ones faster.
Playing defense in business:
• Avoiding failure
• Preventing loss
• Managing risk
• Reacting to crisis
Playing offense:
• Creating value
• Building a vision
• Taking smart risks
• Making bold moves
You can't win on defense alone.
Trying to quit bad habits?
Weak method:
• Feel shame
• Make promises
• Repeat cycle
Strong method:
Build a life so compelling
The habit becomes irrelevant
Your "small vice" becomes an addiction when:
• It replaces deep work
• It hurts relationships
• It damages health
• It controls decisions
Define your red lines
Before you cross them
When you can't decide:
Ask "What pain am I avoiding?"
Every choice has consequences
Every path has loss
Every decision is a mini-death
Choose your losses consciously