The right person will choose you just as deeply as you choose them. You won’t have to quiet the way you care or ever feel like you are too much. You won’t have to beg for the love you deserve. One day, you will be met where you are. One day, you will be someone's favorite thing and you will not be confused.
Women get prettier when our nervous system is regulated & we're not living in chronic stress. Longer hair, shinier hair, softer + glowier skin, no bloating, no breakouts, no mood swings. We’re our best version when we rest more, slow down, spend more time in the sun, eat warm foods, dance, frolic... Biologically we're wired to be whimsical
A man is going to be who he is, no matter what you bring to him. You can be beautiful, solid, have your own, carry yourself right and still end up dealing with somebody who just not built to handle you. You can’t love a man into acting right or upgrade his mindset by being a better woman.
have you noticed women who don’t tolerate disrespect, lies, manipulation, and bullshit are always labeled as difficult, toxic, crazy, bitter, & complicated? But y’all ain’t ready for that conversation
You can literally feel it in your soul when it’s time, time to stop settling, time to outgrow certain people, time to break habits that keep draining you, time to choose yourself in ways you never did before. There comes a moment when your spirit gets tired of surviving and starts craving elevation. You start wanting peace more than chaos, growth more than comfort, and purpose more than excuses.
One thing I’ve learned is when your spirit tells you to fall back from certain people, listen. Every time I ignored that feeling, I ended up seeing exactly why it was there in the first place. Sometimes nothing major even happens.
ngl,this year really woke me up. I see clearly now,who's for me and never was. I learned to set boundaries, stop overextending myself and stop pouring into cups that don't pour back. it's not easy,but it's necessary and peaceful
no shade, but i don't care to be in people's lives anymore. I'm pretty sure y'all noticed how distant i've became. i just don't got time for wishy washy ass behavior anymore & it takes nothing for me to never speak to certain people again.