Please stay away from me. if you know DEEP DOWN inside you do not like me, feel some type of way, you’re not genuine, have bad energy, fake, a hater or just jealous hearted all around
I CAN NOT fuck with people that don't understand the PRINCIPLE of things. It's not what you did, its how you did it, and how you went about it. What’s even crazier is knowing that if the roles were switched you would feel some type of way too.
Justifying your choices (over-explaining) before you’re even questioned about them shows your nervous system is in a stress state. Be aware of this pattern. When you feel that impulse to explain, don’t. Notice how differently people respond to you when you practice being assertive. You’re no longer that child who will be punished— you’re an adult capable of making decisions in your own best interest. Own that.
I saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. And as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really.
the hardest thing i've learned last year is that u can’t make someone communicate & work things out. u can't beg for someone to see that u are worth fighting for & i stand by that now.