This will sound like an obnoxious “only in New York thing” but randomly deciding to walk 6 miles home from work because it’s a nice day and you want some fresh air is really an amazing experience you can’t get anywhere else
Working in healthcare, I get to see genuine love. Some men come before & after work. They sit with their wives for hours and talk to them until they fall asleep. They come and get their laundry to wash, etc. All men are not dogs, wait for a man who loves and values you deeply.
I read a quote that said
"The faster that you do the hard things you want to avoid, the faster you will receive the good things you actually want"
and that has changed my whole perspective.
Maybe it’s delusion but I just KNOW God put these desires in my heart because I’m destined to have them. And me wanting it more and more as time passes simply means I’m getting closer and closer to having them.