At 5, I lost my mother.
At 15, I lost my father.
Still, I pushed through school and graduated from university.
At 27, heartbreak hit me.
I lost a 4-year relationship.
Now I’m rebuilding my life and documenting the journey.
Follow me if you believe pain can build stronger men.
Ten years from now, your son will asks:
“Dad, what did you do when life broke your heart?” What story would you want to tell?
“You gave up.”
Or:
“You cried, You prayed, You worked, You learned, You kept going until God carried you through.”
I really wish I could just speak my mind, but I know she’ll paint me like the bad guy. At this point though, I’m honestly tired and I don’t even care again.
My girlfriend has BPD, and it’s a lot to deal with. She can’t stay on her own at all , she always needs my attention every single time. I have work, I have my own life too. Even if I didn’t, it’s not my job to be available 24/7 or fix all her issues.
If I don’t text for a few hours, she’ll start panicking and blowing up my phone. If I stay quiet for a day, she’ll start asking if I still love her. It’s getting too much, and to be honest, my feelings are already fading.
Going forward, I don’t think I can handle being with someone with BPD again. It feels like they don’t really face their own issues and instead expect you to carry everything like you’re their personal therapist all the time.
“Human beings, in point of fact, are lonely by nature, and one should feel sorry for them and love them and mourn with them. It is certain that people would understand one another better and love one another more if they would admit to one another how lonely they were, how sad they were in their tormented, anxious longings and feeble hopes.”
Before You Commit That Cr¥me, Zoom And View The Condition Of Nigerian Prisoners.
Prison or police cell is not a good sight to behold.
If you are a man always prepare your mind , because as long as you are a man this places are inevitable,.
Good things can still take you there as well as bad things 🥹