@daffodil_crown oh wait btw if u do still want the female version, it’s often the same name! my cousin who’s a guy actually has the same exact name as another girl at his school
as a chinese person this is so freakin cool that they are genuinely looking at each character and the context of a parent naming their child
on an unrelated note, my name means refinement and grace (and my nickname means leisurely and calmly)