@flatmatesdan I do feel bad because I know they mean well and their points are very valid and important, like they're absolutely not doing it on purpose and I do appreciate what they do for the entire community it's just sad to feel left out of the conversation so much of the time
maybe I'm too sensitive or picky but I'm a bit bored of people immediately mentioning how these trans bathroom laws affect cis women with zero mention of how it affects trans women, especially when they never talk about trans women and only mention trans men @ *** *** ****
they're good people and I look up to them so much and it just sucks to feel forgotten by them, I get that trans men are more of their demographic but I'm here too and I've been here since 2012 and I know I'm not the only one, we're quieter but we deserve to be represented too
don't get me wrong, I know they support trans women, I know they don't mean anything by it, and I love them so much, BIG is what inspired me to actually try to come out as trans, I am so grateful for them I just wish they'd talk about trans women sometimes like they do trans men
maybe I'm too sensitive or picky but I'm a bit bored of people immediately mentioning how these trans bathroom laws affect cis women with zero mention of how it affects trans women, especially when they never talk about trans women and only mention trans men @ *** *** ****
I'm just annoyed because countless times they'll be like "oh a fan met me and was like 'i'm a boy now' " not once do they mention the other way around, even when talking about laws made to directly exclude trans women they have to talk about why it sucks for cis women too
maybe I'm too sensitive or picky but I'm a bit bored of people immediately mentioning how these trans bathroom laws affect cis women with zero mention of how it affects trans women, especially when they never talk about trans women and only mention trans men @ *** *** ****
@twinfatale it wasn't yazoo but one time I bought a milkshake from my school cafeteria and it tasted sour but my teacher didn't believe me that it was out of date until I poured it into a glass and a full chunk came out
the idea that conan working out is creating discourse over "how queer he is" is so crazy to me, thinking that the two things have any correlation at all is just homophobia, like queer men at the gym isn't exactly a new concept ๐ญ
@foundheaveen a small part of me just hopes that after wishbone era is over he'll bring back more found heaven for tours, I hope one day it'll have a renaissance and people will start to appreciate it for what it is :(
@babylovessivan were you behind the person with the will byers banner? cause they were just behind me and I felt so bad for whoever was behind that group cause they were fully blocking everyones view
I could say so much about how terrible the AO arena is but the fact I felt genuinely scared in that last part of the queue, it was completely unmanaged and was basically a huge crowd not a queue, and we kept getting crushed
@philsdykes they should let VIP 1 in first in order of when they showed up, then let VIP 2 in in order and then let GA in behind them, again in the order we queued, I'm perfectly happy to be behind VIP but now I could be behind 150 other GAs even tho I got there significantly earlier
@philsdykes no literally why are security just letting people push in?? we got there at 6.30am for GA and people who showed up at 10am were told to form a new queue at the front, and then they were given wristbands before we were???