the man you choose to be your partner affects everything in your life, your mental health, your peace of mind, the love inside you, your happiness, how you get through difficulties, your success, how your children will be raised, and so much more. choose very wisely
it’s scary the way you can kill off the love you have for someone. you just continuously remind yourself of the reality of the situation. you internalize how unfairly you were treated (even unintentionally). you do the work & then one day, you feel nothing for them. not a thing.
Some people are just emotional beings, and some not an ounce. I believe that’s why some relationships don’t make it. You can’t be with someone who’s not on the same frequency. Being emotionally intelligent, stable, and capable doesn’t mix with someone who doesn’t want to feel.