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Lesbian AKA Homosexual. Raised in the cult of Scientology and escaped. I know how to recognise a cult. Transgenderism is a cult. I am not a feminist.

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I know no one is going to read this. But this is from the heart.

I saw this video and it struck a nerve because of my cult background and history of abuse. Please watch it.

This video shares the same erroneous belief than Scientology.

"ANYTHING bad that has happened to you, happened because YOU wanted it to happen."

The three months old baby abused by her father WANTED to be abused. Do you see the abomination that is this statement?

Where both cults differ is that this guy in the video provides a seemingly "reasonable" explanation as to why you may need abuse and trauma to "ascend".

And this is what I want to discuss here. Because so many of us are hurting and are trying to heal or have had a lengthy healing process at some point in our lives.

Most of us strive to be better people. So we are always looking for answers.

It took me a while to understand that the quote "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger" shares the wrong message.

Too many practices share that in order to "ascend" spiritually or be better and stronger as a person, your life MUST have pain or abuse.

No one escapes pain in life. This is a fact.

But I do draw the line where horrendous abuse perpetrated by others is sold as the only way to be made into a strong and a better person.

Although it looks like it, what cult Gurus accidentally admit is that it is the act of healing which is what makes us stronger and better. Why? Because healing is difficult.

This is what builds a person. Doing anything in life that is DIFFICULT. Not trauma.

You want to "ascend" as a person. Take something you've never done before and that is difficult and do it. And keep doing it until you get amazing at it.

There is absolutely ZERO need for anyone to be abused and experience trauma for them to learn self reliance, self confidence and self worth etc...

Trauma and abuse hinders "ascension" (or whatever you want to call it) in a person. The only thing that comes of it is that the person WILL be forced to heal which is something that is difficult to do and as a result, they will grow from HEALING. Not from the abuse and trauma. Sometimes people don't make the healing process and get stuck.

I want anyone who comes across teachings like this to be weary of its messages. Where victims of abuse and trauma are told that they're the cause of what was done to them.

It is never your fault if you have been abused. It is the fault of the abuser. One hundred percent of the time.

But it is your responsibility to heal eventually. In your own time because you staying at the victimhood frequency isn't going to do you any good. Abuse and trauma hinders your progression.

It never facilitates it.

If you want to be a better person or ascend spiritually, pick something you're not good at and that is difficult and start doing it, over and over again. Face your fears because that's difficult. Dream big and ambitiously and start making it a reality. Because that's difficult. Practice discipline. Because it is difficult.

And you WILL "ascend". You will find purpose and be better.

Never ever give accreditation of your new found strength to abusers because they took it from you to start with. They made you take one or more steps backwards. Not forward. The reason why you are strong is because of you. Because YOU escaped the frequency they were happy to drag down you to.

Abuse and trauma break people.

You will find answers, enlightement and strength through love, healing and doing difficult things. As cliché as it sounds.

For most people, the hardest thing we have had to do is heal. And we have had to do this against our will. But we would have had the chance to learn the same lessons through doing something that is difficult, through love.

Do not fall for abuser's lack of accountability tactics like this. The only people who benefit from you thinking that bad things done to you, being your fault, are abusers.

Stay safe on the road. And thank you for reading 🙏

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@jazzraptor Nice one Papa Jack 🧡🥰

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@ThePosieParker The way women use feminism as a shield for lack of accountability is one of the reasons I will never be a feminist.

And yes, women can be c**ts and b***hes.

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@DreyfusJames And now uber drivers get flustered when I ask them to take the right before the sat nav instructions...

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@Aunty_Bigot @notimpressed94 First stop misgendering my cat he is a boy. Second stop miss classing him, he is a non bin rummaging prince. And third, I'm calling the police for thief and suing you for emmotional distress. 🤭😆

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Sexual allegations came out against a well known Brazilian JiuJitsu black belt gym owner.

This is what men had to say about a solution: Segregate women.

When men champion other men in female sports or in female spaces, they know exactly what they are doing.

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No religion has ever invented good morals.

All religions without exception are tools to control others.

Some people do need to be controlled so it is not completely useless.

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@CelataVexata @jazzraptor Society is a choice and a comfort. People aren't required to participate in it nor donate their partners and children to it.

People who want to have comfort make up a society. All it needs to contribute into it is money and trade. Not people or relationships.

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Relationships and marriages aren't meant to serve society you dumb b🖕tch.

Imagine fucking someone to be useful to society.

I'm useful to society by having a full time job and paying all kinds of taxes including those that contribute to schooling. And being part of communities

[Nandi 🤍💜🤍 @pallnandi]

Same sex marriages and relationships are useless to society.

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@jazzraptor @CelataVexata I don't like the idea that people aren't valuable to society unless they are coupled and have kids.

Relationship or not kids or not, we contribute to society by paying our taxes.

Whole families are on welfare and not contributing. But somehow gay couples are seen as less than?

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@wokeandwoofing I bet she made a mean cuppa and coffee.

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@Jayme_Speaking @CelataVexata I'm not a baby making machine for society to benefit from additional consumerism. 😅 Sorry I want a life and enjoy it.

I'll pay my bills and taxes though. 🙌

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@GammaForex @RetroCoast Awwww 🥹 I thought he was at the bank discussing with the manager if he should be giving his wife a bank account.

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@RetroCoast Shame, he should be part of his children's rearing.

Let's not go back to the era when women could not have bank accounts and were discouraged from getting an education.

Do we only have the choice of being men's personal incubators or immigrant's prey?
Sucky choices for us non?

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@HyruleIsEVIL I'm now blocking every lesbian who consumes this shit and calling them pedos.

I don't care.

It's not hard having very little in common with a notorious pedophile.

If you share his taste in porn... 👀👀

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@smarket Good insight.

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I wonder what new war is going to start to distract us, mere mortals, from the fact that every world leader and celebrity are paedophiles. 🤔

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And then lesbians and other women give me the cold shoulder when I have argued that Yuri Yaoi and other anime or children media used for pÔrn are PÊDO ADJACENT.

But please keep on telling me that you do it because the images are less graphic so you can consume porn.

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@RoisinMichaux No anymore, it's not, Roisin... Thanks 😩

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@SofondaSocks @pallnandi Exactly. It is society that benefits unfairly from relationships.