this h*ated r*valry discourse is reminding me of why I stopped enjoying going to gay clubs in the early twenty-teens: cis/het women overtaking queer spaces while actively making spaces that were once safe into a nightmare for queer people
see: the bachelorette party effect
face of the core values of the very community they’re visiting. They want to celebrate with us, consume our media, tell our stories, but they won’t stand by our side to protect our history, our trans sisters and youth, the medicine and science that protects our community.
If it’s one thing I’m sick and tired of is these lil sw*ft*e bitches trying to deflect from the very valid criticisms of black women when addressing the racist subtext of the lyrics, co-opting and whitewashing a significant, deep rooted role in communities of color for the sake
of feeling special, everything about these lyrics is actively promoting eugenics, classist and heteronormative values, and demeaning black women all the while painted as this traditional girl next door tradwife bullshit