Healing & recovering from DA & Narcissist Abuse. Looking to guide & support. Empowering & motivating women by sharing my story! #HearMeNowMemoir coming SOON π
I turned 2 twitter & started 2 journal the day I realised wht I had been spending years of my life with. This was also at the risk of my xnarc seeing it & using it against me. It was a risk I was willing 2 take, if it meant my experiences, knowledge & understanding helped others
The Glitter Trap: when someone dazzles you with gifts, attention, and grand gestures, not out of love, but to distract, control, and hook you. The sparkle isnβt affection, it's bait. #hearmenowmemoir
#HearMeNowMemoir
Abuse lives in the body: clenched jaw, tight chest, shallow breath, stomach knots, exhaustion, broken sleep and more. These arenβt weaknesses, theyβre survival responses.
@Psychinterrupt Love how you have explained this. It's definitely learning to live with it all. The biggest one for me was and sometimes still is is....guilt.
When you escape a life time of abuse trying to heal from the damage only for it to repeat and come at you from other sources, other angles. Its a forever ongoing battle filled with guilt, pain & more hurt. The effect doesnt just effect you but loved ones 2. When does it stop! π
Five years after leaving my narcissistic ex, he still tries to slip back in with compliments. They never stop. But when you can look at them and feel absolutely nothing β no anger, no hurt, no interest β thatβs when you know you did it. You broke free. #Narcissist#healingabuse
@DearS_o_n The wrong kind of man wants both.
He wants the covered-up, homely one. The woman who raises his children and holds the house together.
But he also craves the other one: the one he sexualises, admires, fantasises about.
He wants stability and temptation in the same breath.
Abusers donβt just break homes. They rewrite realities.
They weaponise love, twist loyalty, & leave destruction behind while pretending to be the victim or the hero. This isnβt a mistake. Itβs a pattern. & too many women are living it in silence. #DomesticAbuse