I have found my mission in life - to provide desperately needed companionship to the underserved community of short-haired Japanese girls.
It's a heavy cross to bear, but I'm a humanitarian like that.
Your situation and mine are very similar - we're mired in debt and only the eventual sale of the house makes any forward progress possible. NC requires that one person move out for at least a year before filing, and it took a lot of shuffling to afford the mortgage and my apartment. And the legal process has been ruinously expensive.
It was still worth it. There's no getting along or fixing anything with someone that doesn't want to cooperate. Yeah, the money problem sucks, but you'll feel so much better when you're out.
Best of luck, brother.
Just used the timer on my iPhone after this most recent software update and I gotta say @apple, this new timer interface is SHIT.
Are you actively trying to make people Android users?
Fix this.