It’s so sad seeing people who are stuck in their past… like they really can’t move on and move forward. Whenever it seems like they’re finally starting to take a step forward, the moment they face the slightest inconvenience, they rush right back to their past. It’s like a loop.
Avoidants are created. They're not born that way.
They once loved so hard deeply and unconditionally they had their heart shattered.
They wanted to die. They barely survived. Yes, time has passed, they thought they healed, they miss connection and want….