it *is* misogynistic to think of women as lesser than other women if they fall in love and get married and have kids btw. it’s important that you know this. and don’t use the “but some women want careers” argument cause plenty of career women are happily married and have kids
when cigarette smokers tell me the reason they like smoking isn't the addictive chemical high but the tactile pleasure of the act, the tranquility of the outdoors, the strangers they meet etc it feels like pavlov's dog telling me he eats because he likes the sound of the bell