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[peta @cesmoces]

I'm sorry... and thank you.
Back to the Light of the world, may you rest in peace. 🥀

[remx @biigrem]

In order to insult me, I must first value your opinion. That’s where the process breaks down.

[🇯🇵 Colonel Otaku Gatekeeper 🇯🇵 @politicalawake]

Newly elected Mayor of Shimotsuma Toyoji Sudo launched a program to crack down on illegal immigration in Ibaraki the Prefecture with the most illegal immigrants in Japan.

Now he has been found dead in a drainage ditch.

His death is being treated as a suicide

[🥀 @boxxtoc]

Pantesan nggak ada TNI ternyata demo buzzer, duit pajak di pake buat bayar buzzer demi program laknat, lahan basah koruptor

Dari demo buzzer ini, fix guys, MBG HARUS STOP, koruptor nggak mau kehilangan lahan basahnya

MBG/ KOPDES HARUS STOPPP
#demo
#indonesiagelap

[txtdrimedia @txtdrimedia]

ketika harga minyak dunia naik

teddy: "harga pertamax naik mengikuti harga minyak dunia"

sekarang harga minyak dunia turun

pertamina: "berdasarkan kordinasi dgn pemerintah, harga pertamax tidak mengikuti harga minyak dunia"

P MAKSUDDD?

[Boluwatife @TEEPHTREND]

Date someone who is curious about you. Not someone who simply finds you attractive or entertaining, but someone who wants to know the person behind the surface. Someone who reads every message twice, remembers the stories you almost forgot to tell, and notices the little things no one else does. Someone who wants to know where your scars came from, what shaped you, what makes you laugh, and what keeps you awake at night. Attraction may draw someone in, but genuine interest is what makes them stay. Find someone who wants to learn every layer of who you are.

[kiv z @triwul82]

Gurita kepentingan di balik Makan Bergizi Gratis (MBG) akhirnya dibongkar ICW. Dari sampel 102 yayasan mitra, ditemukan afiliasi ngeri-ngeri sedap:
• 28 yayasan terafiliasi Parpol
• 18 Pebisnis Swasta
• 12 Birokrasi
• 9 Relawan Pilpres
Sisanya terhubung ke militer & eks koruptor. Ini program gizi atau bancakan politik?

Video : kompas tv

[Path of Men @PathOfMen_]

You're supposed to use every unfair advantage you have. Looks, genetics, connections, dad's money, whatever.

There's nothing noble about choosing the hardest path just to feel like an underdog.

[Dear Self. @Dearme2_]

Overcommunicating is a form of begging.
They heard you. They simply dont care.

Stop it.

[* @_lowkeyalfred]

I am fully convinced that one of the highest acts of self respect is choosing to walk away from a connection with someone who isn’t choosing you.

[BBC News Indonesia @BBCIndonesia]

"Kami mau melapor ke polisi, polisi punya dapur SPPG. Kami mau melapor ke TNI, tentara punya dapur SPPG. Kami mau melapor ke DPR RI, anggota DPR banyak yang punya dapur SPPG," kata Iman Zanatul Haeri, seorang guru, di hadapan Mahkamah Konstitusi.

[𝕌𝕘 🥀 @UgWrites]

You ring your partner & they fail to pick up?
They text in a spare moment to tell you whats holding them up. Eventually when they return your call, they narrate all that happened without making it seem like a question & answer situation.

Accountability in action? Always top notch.
"Babe I shouldn't have said that"
"Thats true, I made this same mistake two weeks ago, I'll work on improving"
"I hurt you & I'm sorry, lets talk about it over dinner"

Communicating anything is easy.
You ask a question? They respond, no guilt tripping or anything corny.

These are bare minimums by the way.
Lets love right!

[Dimar @dimarsasongko98]

Budiman Sudjatmiko di UGM malam ini:

"Silakan kritik kami di sini, jangan di media sosial."

Lalu mahasiswa naik panggung.
Lalu Budiman menghilang.

Nusron & Sudaryono keluar , tapi pas ditanya

"Apakah kalian merasa bersalah?"

Mereka pergi juga.
Mahasiswa UGM sampai ngejar mobil pejabat di kampus sendiri , hanya untuk dapat satu jawaban.

Gak dapat.

Kedaulatan rakyat, lo bilang?

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

me when i realize i am doing everything i can to consider someone's feelings/pov but they're doing nothing to consider mine

[Pikku 感情的 - 「イチガチバチ宗教家」 #TENOÍ @PikkuProgram]

"Pirated manga readers are not our opponents. They are our future audience. They are proof that demand already exists"

[txtdrimedia @txtdrimedia]

buat yg dukung MBG tetap jalan, nih dengerin suara hati guru-guru yg diwakilkan pak guru Iman

cuman butuh 17 detik buat paham sakitnya jdi guru di tengah fantastisnya anggaran MBG

- ditekan krn bersuara
- gaji seuprit dibanding petugas SPPG
- ada yg gajinya ga dibayar

[Anish Moonka @anishmoonka]

Fred Rogers met with a child psychologist every week for 22 years to build his show. She shaped everything: every script, prop, and song. The whole point was to give a child's nervous system time to slow down. In 1984, a single regulatory decision ended all of it.

The psychologist was Dr. Margaret McFarland, who co-founded the Arsenal Family and Children's Center alongside Benjamin Spock and Erik Erikson. She and Rogers understood that the prefrontal cortex in children, the part of the brain that controls impulse, emotion, and attention, takes decades to fully develop. At the start of every episode, Rogers tied his sneakers and changed his sweater while children settled in. Those pauses were intentional, designed to help a child's nervous system shift into a calmer, more focused state.

What ended it had nothing to do with child development science. In 1984, Reagan's FCC chairman Mark Fowler abolished the advertising limits that had protected children's programming from commercial pressure. Toy companies moved within months. Between 1984 and 1985, cartoons tied to toy lines increased by 300%, from a handful of shows to more than 40 animated series. In almost every case, the toy was designed first. The cartoon was built to sell it.

Researchers later put numbers to what parents were already noticing. A 2011 study in Pediatrics from the University of Virginia tested 60 four-year-olds across three groups: one watching SpongeBob, which cuts scene every 11 seconds; one watching a slow PBS show, which cuts scene every 34 seconds; and one drawing. Nine minutes later, all three took tests on attention, impulse control, short-term memory, and problem-solving. The SpongeBob group scored significantly worse across every measure.

In the 1970s, children began watching television around age 4. Research from pediatrician Dimitri Christakis found that by 2009, the average age of first screen exposure had dropped to 4 months, as the content got faster and the audience got younger. Researchers separately found that each additional hour of daily screen time at ages 1 or 3 raised the risk of attention problems at age 7 by 9%.

[Morayita @moriah_bridges]

The most manipulative but effective thing I’ve ever done in my life was when I read an article about how children moderate their behavior to protect their self-identity, so if a child believes he’s smart, for example, he’ll intentionally study and try to do well to protect his image of himself.

Anyway, I would pull kids aside with behavioral issues at church and tell them, “David (obviously fake name), you’re such a kind person and such a good listener. I can see that in you. Thank you for always listening.” “Little Annie, thank you for taking such good care of the babies around you. You’re going to be such a good big sister. Can you be in charge of watching Sally?”

They would ALWAYS behave afterward. ALWAYS. Worked like a charm. Morally questionable because it wasn’t initially true, but I kind of willed it into existence. Tbf, I did think that they had that in them or I wouldn’t have tried.

Will publish longitudinal results of this method once my kid is old enough to report back.

[detach @detachdaily]

one of the saddest things about emotional exhaustion is that eventually you stop looking for support and start looking for ways to carry it better.