i really don’t like too private of a relationship. i find it so weird to not love your partner out loud. no posts, no flirting in the comments, you don’t like or repost their stuff. little stuff like that always been strange to me.
i saw a post today that said, “when you finally learn your place in people's lives, your feelings won't get hurt” and i swear that's the truth and one of the most important life lesson you will learn. whether it's family, friends, or whoever
HATE having delayed emotional processing because I’ll have a conversation and be like “yeah this is fine!” and then two days later be like wait that was actually fucked up
Saw a tiktok about surrounding yourself around those who just get it. Not having to overly explain yourself, change up your humor or anything and i felt that. I love my people that just get me, because its exhausting trying to explain you.
my therapist advised, "learn to calm your own storm instead of venting to others. it may feel therapeutic to let it all out, but you reinforce negative thoughts. it’s no one’s job but yours to pull yourself out of your problems. journal, meditate, exercise,and release." felt that
Most ppl don’t realise this, the body grieves routine before it grieves a person. So you aren’t crying over him. You’re crying over the version of yourself that was shaped by his patterns, attuned to his silences, fluent in the unspoken language of his inconsistencies.