Took me a while but I realized what triggers my toxicity. It’s DISRESPECT! I can be cool , the life of the party , I can get a long with everybody all day and night but the one thing that destroys my internal peace is being disrespected. I know I’m a good woman.I know I’m too nice , too cool , and way to sweet so when I’m disrespected my mouth is lethal because what you put in is what you get outta me .. However I’m working on that . Know your triggers and stay away from the people, places, or things that bring them to the forefront.
I really can't wait until I fully transition into my next phase of life. im good now but I'm beyond ready for new things, new people and new experiences
its crazy people really cant read energy.. its all in the eyes lol. Zach does not fw kayda… sincere’s energy with Mel is way more passionate than his with Sol.. i knew he’d pick her. & I knew Corbin and Kenzie would pick each other, their relationship is built off lust.
Very clear about what I want. Very adamant about saying no to anything that isn’t that. And no, I won’t feel like I’m missing out on nothing. If it ain’t for me, it ain’t for me.
one of the beautiful things about life is we haven’t met all the people who are going to love us.. & that alone allows me to stay open.. and willing.
hardest pill I’ve had to swallow lately is people really don’t be my friend.. like I’ve genuinely been a real friend to people who could care less about me & that is craZzzzzy.
If you’re going to be strict with men, stop telling them the consequences. See, this is where most ppl get it twisted. We think boundaries are about speeches, warnings, ultimatums. The more you explain, you invite negotiation & in that moment, you’ve already lost ground.
You are more than how you’re perceived. It’s important to set a boundary between who you are and how you’re perceived. Otherwise, you’ll live based on how you think others may see you. Focus on who you are and who you want to be for YOU not for others perceptions.
I’m at a point in my life where I pray to keep meeting the right people. People who genuinely want the best for me, hold me in high regard, add value in my life, prioritize me and add peace to my life.