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[ً @chabcharu]

DON'T overshare just because someone is being nice to you, you idiot

[ً @chabcharu]

it's weird how you can actually feel it in your chest and stomach when something really hurts your feelings

[ً @chabcharu]

ignoring your partner's needs and still expecting a happy relationship is like ignoring your plants need water and still expecting a beautiful garden

[ً @chabcharu]

girlhood is holding hands in crowded places so no one gets lost

[ً @chabcharu]

everybody be shocked when you start being real serious about your boundaries, like yeah surprise, i'm not a people pleaser anymore so let's see how cool we really are

[ً @chabcharu]

i think it's attractive when someone texts you after hanging out just to say they had fun with you, idk little things like that mean a lot to me

[ً @chabcharu]

after a while, you realize “this ain’t what i wanna keep going through” and you just stop

[ً @chabcharu]

you gotta make sure the person you choosing over everybody is choosing you to cause i made a mistake and lost a lot cause of how in love i was

[ً @chabcharu]

scared of my own anger, that's why i laugh a lot and stay as humble as possible

[ً @chabcharu]

sorry for over-explaining myself, i got yelled at a lot as a child

[ً @chabcharu]

how anti-social are you? i can stay in my house for one month straight without getting bored as long as i have food and good internet

[ً @chabcharu]

did it hurt? shifting from a happy, jolly, talkative person to a dull human who's no longer interested in anything

[ً @chabcharu]

am i the only one who always feels left out? it feels like i’m always the last choice, the least favorite. people avoid me, and i feel like everyone else has their own thing, their own group, and friendship circle, while i have nothing. just me, myself, and i

[ً @chabcharu]

just because i address it doesn't mean i'm trying to argue. i'm communicating. hear me out

[ً @chabcharu]

hardest thing for me to grasp as an adult is you have to keep showing up no matter how you feel. you gotta do this sad, do it heartbroken, do it grieving, do it tired. life doesn't care, it waits for nobody, you just have to keep going

[ً @chabcharu]

part of being a daughter is growing up to find out about your mother's hidden traumas, u realize she never told you half of the horrible things she went through in life. the older you get, the more it hits you that you were raised by a superwoman disguised as an ordinary person

[ً @chabcharu]

it's very manipulative that our angry side is always seen as our “true colours” as if when we are happy and being kind, we're being fake

[ً @chabcharu]

you're too good to be someone's secret or second choice

[ً @chabcharu]

if a girl sticks around and gives you time to mature, that isn't love. that's a whole wife you're sleeping on

[ً @chabcharu]

they swear they don’t wanna lose you but act like they ain’t tryna keep you either

[ً @chabcharu]

some things are better left unsaid which i usually realize after i say them