"They are actors. They should be paired with others for improvement. They need to adapt to new partners for their growth." - Let's put our thinking caps on... Why do you think the Thai bl industry isn't big on flexible ships?... Why are fixed ships so successful? Let's think really hard. The answer might come to you soon.
Yea, Ive held myself back from engaging with blatant hate and stupidity from certain ppl but I’m just gonna say it all cause it’s getting increasingly frustrating and maddening how people can turn what was once a peaceful fandom into what it is now, cause after 4 years of being a fan of bossnoeul lately has been HELL here.
Bossnoeul have always respected and given space for each other. They are not together 24/7. If you’ve been following them, you will understand that cause they have said it COUNTLESS times. They have friends and their own circles. What part of social interaction and living like a normal human being dont some of you understand? They are not playing perfect characters in a series. Even in their series they have FRIENDS. Do you want them to be lonely and miserable like you?
Bossnoeul have always been bossnoeul. A beautiful bond that we always appreciate. They don’t show us everything, they’re very gatekeepy of their moments, and they also have their own choices, lives, and their own SOLO endeavors, and we, as fans, have always respected that. The majority of us have never questioned their choices, what work they take on, who they hang out with, and all other intrusive questions bc we respect that healthy boundary between artists and fans.
But i’m not gonna sugarcoat it, it’s growing more and more uncomfortable being here the past weeks (?), months(?), with growing no of entitled fans, toxic solos, antis, people who pretend theyre fans, and recently outsiders who think theyre so smart and know everything about a couple that they have the audacity to even form an opinion about it.
Lately, noeul’s been a punching bag for haters and multistans that obviously hate his guts or dont even bother to FOLLOW CLOSELY bossnoeul’s work. His name is mentioned left and right for smth he’s not even a part of. Same goes with boss, directly and indirectly. Ppl talk about bls and ships with moral superiority, when in reality their intention is to break the ship, shade and throw hate to either one of the two, or both bc they cant stand them. When the fandom tries to set the record straight and protect their faves, they get gaslighted and ridiculed. They generalize every single bl fan as bad.
The moment the artist gets fed up and address the hate, speaks up about it, or sets clear boundaries, they’re suddenly labeled problematic. Are people not allowed to stand up for themselves after being dragged thru constant lies and rumors?
Our fandom has been under fire the past couple of weeks. We’re accused of smth we are truly against, like being a hindrance to bossnoeul’s solo work. When in reality, for the past 3 years, bossnoeul have taken on so many solo jobs. Theyve been doing really well building their own names and arent just tied to bossnoeul. It’s their own choice, their own intention and free will to keep working together. We’re here giving them full support in anything they take on.
So don’t come in, and try to taint our name, our reputation of being a good fandom, speaking on behalf of us, when you are the ones who have ill intentions toward boss, noeul or bossnoeul. Yes, there are toxic fans, but they dont represent the entirety of us. And lets be real, toxic fans exist in literally EVERY fandom.
Be more self aware, compassionate, and reflect on how you present yourself in a community. Maybe you’re the toxic one with tons of unrealistic expectations that, when failed to be met, turn you into an entitled crybaby online.
@Bossnoeul00 Supongo que es eso, porque no le encuentro otra explicación, BN no se meten con nadie y el fandom tampoco. Que casualidad (no )que ahora tantas tengan problema con las parejas fijas 😒.
Now, I saw some of interfans understand that BNC organize this event. I want to say that is NOT. This event Boss&Noeul want to do for US by themselves.
I think everyone knows that both of them so busy and full of their schedules. But they try so hard to find the date that they can join to watch final ep. together with you guys na. 🥺
I hope that everyone will get the ticket (me also 🙏🏽🥺) to join in this event for spending time together with them na 🙏🏽🥺💕🐥🐰