Kiarie.M.

It's life slowly ticking away, not time.

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

@Kin_Kenny @Gidi014 Indeed.

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

@Wachira_16 @Gidi014 Lol

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

@kiruabiezer @Gidi014 Gumzo tu hamna balaa 😎

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

@MalackMmoja @Gidi014 Apparently not bad enough 😆

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

@DukJawiro2 @Gidi014 🤝🏿

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

The real gender war is women vs women, men are just collateral damage because we care, and we're natural problem solvers so we end up trying to change what we can't instead of focusing on building ourselves up, and the natural order of things flows from there.
We can't change women, we can only be competent men desired by them, then they change so they can be chosen by a high value man.
Whether they change or not is their decision, we should be chasing our goals and becoming better.
Competition among them for who attracts the most competent mate for survival has nothing to do with us.

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

If you knew how to ride the so-called female drama, you'd understand why it's your greatest asset.
But you don't, so you complain about them and hold resentment instead of admiration for how meticulous creation is.
Yet, there's information about female psychology to help you understand what that drama really is and how to deal with it.
Drop a message for more.

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

@di_Morii @Gidi014 Vipi

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

The more men refuse to hold themselves to a higher standard in terms of being a quality man worth considering, the more they make themselves a target to be exploited for their attention, resources and commitment.
That aside, women's refusal to self reflect and be aware of their survival instincts, places them at a disadvantage when selecting men causing them to keep choosing exciting but unstable men who waste their fertility window making them undesirable to the good men they actually desire for a long term relationship.

[Mr Sergio @samson_samsen]

"you clearly haven't been loved by a woman"

Women speak of them loving men as though it is a prize, a reward, a privilege bestowed upon men. But many have never paused long enough to ask what tangible thing that love actually provides the man.

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

@Gidi014 It is 😆

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

@dapcojr @Gidi014 Done it all bro, young, old, you're better off going for young.
But you'd better lead decisively and have firm boundaries.
Young women will test you in every way possible, and you can't afford to fail simple tests.

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

@_jabuto Okay.

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

Face the feminine emotional chaos with curiosity rather than resentment.
That indecisive, emotional, passive-aggressive behavior is a test of your competence as a man; it's there to help you elevate if you know how to use it.
It's not personal, just a mirror.
When she's acting like a spoilt child, you welcome that as a challenge to your leadership skills.
So, will you keep complaining about women's behavior, or will you take the opportunity to face your weaknesses triggered by not having your way with them?

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

A relationship should be a vehicle for self growth, not a bus ride to run away from yourself.
If you can't be by yourself and be comfortable with your thoughts, feelings, fears, vulnerabilities or emotions positive or negative then you're not ready to be with anyone.
People using each other as an escape is the most narcissistic thing that's making it difficult to have meaningful relationships.
Life is about people, and the need for connection is a human being's most crucial survival need.

[MP | Masculine Peak 🧠 @MasculinePeak]

Men are starting to realize their worth.

[Kiarie.M. @chalimrefu]

It's comical how women hammer this idea of learning about themselves as a reason to postpone a relationship, when the whole time they're single, they can barely be truly alone; they have a bunch of distractions such as pets, food, fwb, toys, mediocre friendships, social media, and a string of beta-male orbiters.
Knowing oneself only happens when you're able to be alone with your thoughts and feelings without running away.
They hardly do any self-reflection.

[Westside L.A. Guy @WestsideLAGuy]

Guys are now fully aware of girls’ dual mating strategy.

Ladies, you can’t expect guys to take you on series of nice dates and hold out on sex when you have banged tons of guys without going on actual dates.

Hopefully both genders can learn to work together & mutually benefit.