there will always be a problem with a white man having dreads. doesn’t mean he’s a bad person, but he’s appropriating a culture that y’all don’t seem to understand or care about,
and you don’t want to listen to actual black people on the subject so you label them all “Americans”
fyi, amber heard was a domestic abuse victim who had plenty of evidence documenting the abuse she experienced + a story that reflected well established patterns of interpersonal abuse. yet plenty of libs/leftists participated in the reactionary, heavily coordinated smear campaign against her, without hesitation, and still don’t seem to care/recognize how devastating the effects have been. we are experiencing a period of cultural regression without any reckoning of how we got here
I think most kinkshaming discourse could be boiled down to kinks dont exist in a vacuum and its not shaming or attacking to ask you investigate why you enjoy something and how it influences your outer world and life