There is something insanely romantic about finding the one person on earth whose specific brand of madness mirrors yours. Not just โwe like the same filmsโ compatibility, no. We are talking another realm.
Actual nervous system alignment + crazy alignment + skill alignment + willingness to go all the way alignment.
Same danger tolerance + same skill+ same devotion to the plot. AND THEY LOVE U TOO
Some people live 120 years and never touch that kind of aliveness.
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist. If youโre an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Donโt make everything a matter of life and death.