Don’t be surprised when the career, partner, income, and peace all arrive at the same time.
You’re stepping into your “everything at once” season, where life finally catches up to the version of you you’ve been quietly becoming.
All the healing, growth, and obedience are about to meet you in real time. Get ready.
Narcissistic mothers don’t just gaslight you
They’ll run to the rest of the family, cry about how you’ve changed, and recruit a whole army of flying monkeys to guilt you back into submission.
I dont understand why some mothers in law are antagonist towards their daughters in law, who started this culture/tradition of hatred?
I have tried a lot to understand this mentality, but couldn't, if i put myself in the mil's place i feel I'll have as much love for my dil as for my son, for the sole reason that this girl makes my son happy, rest everything is secondary, I'd put effort to have a good healthy & loving relationship with her, because she is family now,
I think it's lack of maturity that causes this insecurity & hatred, & also because Boomer parents think they own their sons, so they feel threatened by the introduction of another claimant.
I'm saying this is a generational thing, because as much as i have heard about the experience of our grandparents' generation, yes the in laws were strict, & there was an air of reverence, but in most cases they weren't blatantly petty & hostile.
After 8-10 crore, your own home and a nice car, there is not much difference in the quality of life between you and billionaire investors like RK Damani.
Time is the currency of life. Money is not.
Both of you have limited amount of time on earth; infact you may have twice or more time than RK Damani, so you are richer than him.
Dal roti is dal roti whether a billionaire eats or you do.
Become financially independent, which is around 8-10cr.
Have good food. Workout. Sleep well.
Meet your parents and friends.
That’s all there is to life.
Greed has no end.
Sooner you figure this out, happier you will be.