can a neurotypical person please explain where they draw the line between a “reason” and an “excuse” because apparently i still don’t understand the rules. you ask me, “why did you do it that way?” and naturally i’m going to explain exactly what was going through my head because… you literally asked. then three sentences into my explanation you hit me with “i don’t want excuses.” okay??? you wanted the explanation or you wanted me to guess the answer you already had in mind?