Sometimes I accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be considerate of what others are going through & that is a habit I need to let go of expeditiously
I never want a man to settle for me. Go find your dream woman. And if you can’t find her, don’t use me to fill the gap. I want mine clingy, passionate, reassuring, unapproachable, God fearing, and locked in on me only.
For my final act of love, I will leave you alone for the rest of your life. I’ll gladly be the villain in your story as long as it means I chose my own peace and sanity.
No disrespect to anyone, but God please don’t send me another man who doesn’t know how to communicate, take accountability, or emotionally show up. I don’t want a man who’s still battling himself, avoiding healing, depressed, or emotionally unavailable and refusing help. I don’t want a man who can’t stand firm, speak for himself, or take control of his own life. I don’t want a man who belongs to someone else, is still tied to past situations, or lacks compassion, empathy, patience, and romance. I’m not built to carry a grown man through life while neglecting myself. Dealing with someone like that will drain you mentally, emotionally, and physically. I want a partner who’s already doing the work, not one I have to break myself trying to fix. Keep that kind of man far away from me.
My last relationship taught me something hard. Someone can hold you close and still be planning a life without you. Not everyone who says " I love you" means it.
i can’t wait to be with someone i feel safe enough to love fully. i’m tired of holding back my affection, acting nonchalant, and matching energy just because i’m not getting the same in return. i want to be able to give 100% without feeling like i have to protect myself.
a cheating man is the worst. but you know what’s even worse? it’s the man who pretends to be a good man, but in reality he’s a pathological liar, lustful manipulator, and good at using the victim card.
Fellas, your girl don't want flowers once a year. She wants flowers when she had a rough day at work. She wants flowers just because. Consistency > occasion.
If love ever finds me again, May the universe let me meet someone who loves me as deeply as I do. Someone who is never okay with hurting me. Someone who is loyal, kind & devoted. Someone who will never make me feel unwanted. Someone who feels like home & also finds home in me.