kpop stans have a safe cookie cutter version of how they view femininity and queerness in idols, it’s okay when an idol plays gay within the boundary they like. but when they step out of that boundary they criticize the idol for being fem and make them a into a caricature
the way just a few years ago you guys would throw transphobic slurs at renjun but now that trends are different y’all all so desperately want your favs to be the pretty feminine babygirl princess lmao 😹 the switch up is insane
not #them randomly bringing up feminine clothes at the airport and expecting people to believe it's not about rj like who else were you talking about exactly? 😹