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[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

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[Space Tourist @spacetourist0]

Elon Musk was asked in an interview what he looks for in a partner.

He said "someone who won't leave when it gets hard."

Then he stopped. Like he had said something more honest than he intended. The interviewer waited. Elon continued, slower. He said every relationship he's had followed the same curve. Intense beginning. Gradual withdrawal as work demands increase. The partner feels abandoned. The partner leaves or he detaches until they leave.

He said what he wants but has never found is someone who understands that the withdrawal isn't about them. That the silence isn't rejection. That the 2am factory visits aren't an escape from the relationship but a compulsion he can't control. Someone who can sit in the silence of his absence and still be there when he surfaces.

He said he knows this is an unreasonable thing to ask of another person. To love someone who disappears for weeks into a factory and returns expecting the warmth to still be there. He called it "asking someone to love a ghost that occasionally becomes solid."

The interviewer asked if he thinks that person exists. Elon said "I hope so" in a voice that carried the specific weight of a man who has searched five times and been wrong every time but hasn't stopped believing the answer is yes.

The richest man alive looking for the same thing every human looks for. Someone who stays. The only difference is that his version of "hard" involves six companies, twelve children, and a mind that won't stop running long enough to be present. And every woman who has tried has eventually discovered that staying requires a tolerance for absence that no amount of love can sustain indefinitely.

[Thorgil the Wizard @ThorgilB]

@jerr_rrej And to signal their high value to other women. "Look how awful I can be"

[Adriana Flowers 🌸 @Adriana19Flower]

Women really get upset when men say they want to marry a beautiful virgin that cooks,cleans, and submits. What are men supposed to dream about then? Like “I dream of marrying an ugly whore that doesn’t cook or clean,that nags all the time AND that I still have to provide for?”
😂

[HakureiRyan @HakureiRyan]

Onlyfans wasn't even originally a porn platform, fun fact! Females just organically flocked to it and turned it into a porn platform. This further debunks the notion that females are victims of the porn industry when they themselves will literally convert a premium content site into a porn site.

In fact, females will do this to any such website that doesn't explicitly ban porn! This is how Patreon is still just a fan site, it explicitly bans porn. It's also why Tumblr was once a major hub for porn and why all cam sites nowadays are explicitly porn sites. Females, of their own will, turned them into such as there was no explicit ban on it.

[Dvorstone @dvorstone]

This thread is very important and I've discussed why before:

1. Men organize themselves into a series of hierarchies. In one hierarchy or even many, you might be top-dog, but there is always one or so hierarchies in which you're near the bottom.

2. Women DO NOT DO THIS. They organize themselves into networks. All nodes are equal but not all networks are.

This is why the woman with a graduate degree demands respect even in domains that she's not credible in. In her mind, her status is consistent across ALL domains. Thus, an "alpha" woman is alpha in ALL domains...

But an alpha man isn't.

3. Women don't generally understand this and even when they do, they hate it.

Thus, if your woman sees you in a hierarchy in which you're not a top-dog, she'll get "the ick" and she'll usually respond with "I don't like them" and try to separate you from them.

4. Men need to be careful which social hierarchies they let their woman see them in. If you're a top dog, it's fine but if you're not, you should keep that group isolated from her.

5. For the other men... whenever your man brings a woman around, make sure you treat him like he's top-dog even when he isn't.

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@Zhane_Star Are you implying that such a lady should not be worth having a man where she can feel acknowledged and valuable for who she is?

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@xevekiah Fix the problem then, the world needs more beauty

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@HlpMeRhondaYa @yvessirae You don't get my approach yet, so try me.

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

I cook her meals, do her laundry and shop for her whenever that's what she needs - she can entrust herself to me completely. I am the one waking up early to plan the day, ensuring everything goes smooth, delegating tasks. I work hard in all aspects of life, including home. I have the responsibility over our home and ensures that whatever she would want but does not do - for any reason - still gets done. I'm devoted to her completely.

But that doesn't imply she's treated like a kid. She's a Queen in my home.

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@Ifeanyichukvu You connotate "strict" with "mean". Done by good parents it means discipline / structure / guidance / boundaries / teaching respect.

Be strict only if it's rooted in love and teaching. If you're mean or cruel, don't be a strict parent.

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@DESI0RE Fix your own first, else you'll never get better

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@prinkasusa As nature intended. And?

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@itstellafrancis More feminine?
No angelic pussy to envelop me.
End of. 💀

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@prinkasusa That's the least controversial take I've read on here

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@cessonmute Sex affects a woman's hypergamy because of her biology

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@hecubian_devil You can discuss one without reducing it to the other.

It’s very weird (stupid) to conceptualize anger as distinct from/unrelated to testosterone. Pleasure as opioids. Stupidity as weirdness.

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@fwdaniels The ease women have during youth comes back to bite them. That's their reckoning.

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@ma1ybe Any woman can bear children, but I choose the woman who shows she will manage her own life sustainably over time, as that translates directly to raising children effectively long-term.

The kid is proof enough of itself.

[Chapalgrok @Chapalgrok]

@Acedouglas01 In these cases, instead of thinking to "let go" or "reduce love for them", think of it as redirecting the focus on bettering your own market value.