A coworker of mine left her husband of 3 years. She normally does all the laundry and cooking, but when she was sick, he only washed his own clothes and made dinner for himself, telling her, 'I'm sorry, I just can't, I'm tired.' People really do show you in small ways that they don't even like you.
Thinking about how in barbie land where everything is perfect for women, men still aren't suffering. they aren't in servitude, they aren't being objectified or harassed. they are just not the main characters. but in a world run by and for men, women are NEVER safe. that's the difference between feminists and misogynists. women just want to be left alone, while men don't see us as humans.
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. The one who sees your heart without judgement. The one who holds your dreams with care.