Sering jadi pertanyaan “Apa masih bisa bahagia setelah hubungan panjang berakhir?”
Jawabannya: bisa.
Lihat kisah Elina Joerg dan Syifa Hadju. Kadang akhir dari satu cerita bukan akhir dari kebahagiaan, tapi awal bertemu dengan cinta yang lebih tenang, lebih sehat, dan lebih tulus 🥹🫶🏻🤏🏼
Women lose sexual interest when they're emotionally disappointed, and I’m not going to argue about that. A woman can love you deeply, stay loyal, support you through hard times, and still slowly disconnect the moment she feels unheard, unappreciated, or emotionally neglected. Most people think attraction disappears because of looks, time, or routine, but emotional disappointment is what quietly changes everything.
Hati2 dah kalo jalan dari arah MRT ke GI. Barusan gue berantemin fotografer yg tanpa izin gue ngefotoin gue pake kamera, gue suruh apus ngmgnya “kan udah ngmg kalo mau fotonya bisa dikirim”. Kontooollll itu bukan izin tolol gear bagus otak kaga punya
My auntie didn’t struggle with infertility. She struggled with something quieter.
She married young, 21, to a man everyone described as stable. Good job. Polite. From a decent family. Within a year, she was pregnant. Everyone congratulated her like she had unlocked the next level of life.
But the pregnancy was difficult. She was constantly exhausted, dizzy, in pain. At every appointment, she said something felt wrong. Every time, she was told, “That’s normal. You’re just anxious.”
During labor, there were complications. She remembers alarms going off. Nurses rushing. Then silence.
She survived. The baby survived. After that, she was never the same.
She lived with chronic pain. Severe fatigue. She could not stand for long without feeling faint. Yet every follow up visit ended the same way. “You’re fine.” “You just need rest.” “It’s probably hormones.”
Her husband began complaining that she was not the same woman he married. He called her lazy. Moody. Dramatic. He said other women recover faster.
Years passed. She forced herself through it. Cooked. Cleaned. Smiled at family gatherings while taking painkillers in private.
In her late 30s, after collapsing at work, a new specialist finally ran proper tests.
Untreated complications from childbirth. Internal damage that had been missed for years.
She was not weak. She was not dramatic. She was not failing.
She had simply been dismissed.
Some women are told they are overreacting.
Sometimes the truth is someone chose not to listen.
if abortion is ILLEGAL, men abandoning their pregnant partners should be ILLEGAL too. if women can't opt out of PREGNANCY, then men shouldn't be able to opt out of FATHERHOOD either!
cowok miskin, jelek, bau, jobless, dan tampang kecanduan judol gini pasti ngerasa inferior banget di masyarakat. so they do what they do best to make themselves better: ngerendahin perempuan. pathetic 🤢
@jejakrasa27 2 hal itu bisa mudah dilakukan sm PEREMPUAN dg mudah, kalau laki laki bisa kasih RASA AMAN.
AMAN DOMPETNYA (FINANSIAL)
AMAN HATINYA (MENTAL, EMOSIONAL)
kl cowo cm bikin stres, duit dikit, banyak mau, minta ceweknya "lemah lembut"? MIMPI.
Health workers in Egypt, including teams from the Egyptian Society for Mercy to Animals (ESMA), are now using blow-dart vaccine delivery to protect street dogs from rabies. This method allows veterinarians to immunize free-roaming dogs without having to chase or restrain them, making the process far safer and less stressful for both the animals and the people involved.
Inilah potret realita yg diinginkan banyak laki² yg mau 50:50 (finansial doang).
Tanggung jawab lain ga mau 50:50. Terus nanti masih ngeremehin jadi IRT gampang leyeh leyeh di rumah doang. Liat istri mandiri dibentak "Istri durhaka"
@bardanslm Lagian para boomer2 tai itu yg bikin harga jadi kaya sekarang.
Rumah yg jelas jelas dari jaman SD diajarin sebagai kebutuhan Papan, malah jadi instrumen investasi.
Udah mendekati bubble nya pecah sekarang, gen z udah ga doyan beli rumah. Mampus