Why is naseeb only related to marriage?? Like a woman can have successful career, life everything but if she has gone through a failed marriage then her naseeb is bad. Mardoun ka naseeb toh kbhi bura nhi hota
ny nani once said to me 'naseeb eik band mutthi ki tarha hai shadi ke baad khulti hai toh pata chlta hai naseeb mein kya hai' and her words still stuck in my mind that how for south asian women their luck, happiness, future, whole life still tied to marriage and husband.
Aunties do the same with boys too, so this isn't even a gender based thing and I'm not targeting men here. It's so hypocrite of our ppl that if a young person does this it's an issue but if an older relative does the same thing, everyone acts like it's completely normal
Another Paki culture I don’t understand is elderly uncles touching your head in the name of "pyaar lena" like wtf is this and why is it so normalized?? Even if they are older and have no bad intentions but still I don’t want some aged uncle touching me bro
I really hate my reach now. It used to be so much better before now every aira gaira natto khaira comes to my comments and start showing his tarbiyat. And it's always insecure men lmao