I feel like if I had to cook for, pick up and clean after, and look after another fully grown and perfectly able human being everyday of my life, I would resent them and resent them very badly.
Mind you, this applies generally. I get home after a 12-hour shift at past 7pm and my mum, who got home before me, expects me to cook dinner, that’s simply not happening. I made that very clear from the moment I started that job.
"Is this how you'll do in your husband's house" Yes o mummy. Yes it is!
If I’m home before him, I’ll definitely cook. But if you’ve been home all day, I’m not coming back from a stressful workday to start making dinner. If nobody feels like cooking, we’ll order food and call it a day.
A lot of you never held any leadership role prior to marriage. Not your offices, not in associations you belong to, not even headboy of your primary school, so marriage is the one place you finally get to be the local champion leader you’ve been having wet dreams about.
Pathetic
The love I have for myself outweighs any love I could ever have for a man. No man is the prize in my world. The moment respect disappears, so does my access
One thing I I have learned is that a lot of Nigerians don’t tie their struggles to the dysfunctional system in Nigeria, they think it’s the devil or something
Single women are living just fine on their income while single men are lamenting and looking to partner up so they can split bills.
Interesting world we now live in.