@sanskarstine To hazard a guess, you have no close association with nor knowledge of the people you consider to be "extreme right wing conservative men".
And if you care to look at a breakdown of domestic violence figures, its not white guys who are overrepresented.
@BenGunnEx@c3nsor3dcitizen They should be "racist" in the same way that the police are and should be "sexist". They should be aware of who is committing the crime and allocate resources accordingly.
Not stupidly waste time performatively searching white grannies at airports, for example.
@BenGunnEx The police at the time were doing their job. Namely tackling the people actually committing the crime.
Its not their fault blacks commit so much of it.
We had a much more orderly and crime free society before leftwing twats like you trashed criminal justice in this country.
@grace_hawthorn@MizShannonS Yes, it is trivial semantics. Its a marriage - an explicitly sexual relationship.
Regular sex is a perfectly reasonable expectation with the qualifications he gave.
His point was totally reasonable and you seized on a single term to impute things he never said.
@grace_hawthorn@MizShannonS No one would say if a man has ED problems, its not him, its that his wife is a fat ugly bitch. But that is exactly the kind of contempt women routinely express about men when a woman doesn't enjoy sex.
@grace_hawthorn@MizShannonS As for the reasonable expectation or orgasm, that is not comparable at all. Yes, husbands should try to make sex pleasurable.
But agreeing to sex is something you can easily do. Making a woman reach orgasm every time, depending on the woman, is hardly a given.
@grace_hawthorn@MizShannonS He was talking about marital expectations, not the law.
He was quite specific that he was not referring to sex on demand, just not withholding sex to an obviously unreasonable degree.
You totally ignored the point and focussed on trivial semantics.
@kevinblue345 A) He is OBVIOUSLY guilty. Conviction is justice in this case.
B) Whites are on average far less biased than blacks
C) Blacks are supporting this guy because he murdered a white guy. Any black juror has a significant chance of refusing to convict a man they know is guilty.
@rissagaetyone@MizShannonS So why is she married to him? To be clear, she has accused him of no wrongdoing whatsoever. She states she refuses to have sex with him.
And you conclusion is that he is at fault and you heap utter contempt on him.
Why?
Oh yeah, you are just massively biased against men.
@rissagaetyone@MizShannonS Ok, so we should disregard what she actually says, we should disregard what research finds is generally true and assume that the wholly imagined failings you project onto the guy - no one of which she claims - are the reason she doesn't want to have sex with him?
@rissagaetyone@MizShannonS Also, just read the damn post. She states she loves her husband. She does not describe the overwhelming contempt which you are just inventing as an excuse for being a shit wife.
She is just selfish.
@rissagaetyone@MizShannonS The actual FACTS, not things you have just pulled out of your arse, show that it is very normal for female libido to decline BEFORE the woman's marital dissatisfaction declines.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but no, its not lousy men. Women actually are just a lot less horny.
@rissagaetyone@MizShannonS Yeah and women insisting they should never expect to have sex with their husbands on twitter are obnoxious bitches with a total lack of reading comprehension.
If you thought that about a man WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU MARRY HIM?
Again, a wife CHOSE to marry her husband.
@PeterOuld Yeah, the details they had AT THE TIME THEY CUFFED A GUY WHO OBVIOUSLY POSED ZERO THREAT was his own repeatedly testimony of having been stabbed.
A white guy's claims of being stabbed were dismissed repeatedly because a brown man cried racism.
@rissagaetyone@MizShannonS My comments aren't aren't autobiographical. If we apply that standard, then presumably you have admitted your husband is a terrible lay based on your first comment.
You also completely ignored the point I actually made. Why are women marrying men they refuse to have sex with?
@grace_hawthorn@MizShannonS Unless you imagine that a 25 year old guy started out amazing in bed, but by 30 or 35, he just became totally useless
And this cratering of libido precedes marital dissatisfaction, not cause by it.
@grace_hawthorn@MizShannonS Great advice Grace. The problem is clearly that men are propositioning their wives by saying that want to have sex on them, not with them.
No, the actual problem is that women's libidos frequently fall off a cliff after several years through no fault of the man.
@rissagaetyone@MizShannonS Also, you still agreed to have sex with the guy by marrying him.
Insulting him after the fact and blaming him for being bad in bed, even if it was true, is still your fault.
YOU chose to marry him.
@rissagaetyone@MizShannonS Women's libidos drops off sharply after several years of marriage pretty consistently and this happens BEFORE marital dissatisfaction increases.
If a woman who married at 23 has no desire for sex at 30, its not because her 30 year old husband got dramatically worse at sex.