Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.
But no, Chelmi, you can't make new friends because the moment you discover something disappointing about them, you want to drop them right away, since they're "new" and you haven't known each other that long. That's toxic. So no, not until you figure out why you are like this.
Days ago the woman next to me at the drug store asked the pharmacist: pag binili ko ba lahat to gagaling ako? The difference 50, 100, 200 pesos make in people’s day-to-day lives, while govt officials swim in wealth so obscene we need to see money stacked this way to imagine it.