I thought the whole point of identifying your attachment style is to work towards becoming secure - not declaring it and expecting everyone around you to endlessly accommodate
You sit with the reality that unless they’re gone from this world why mourn the absence of someone who knows exactly where to find u?
You’re only a message a call a car ride away yet they choose the distance so why ache for someone who could reach u but willingly chooses not to?
when i was protecting my peace, detached, and distant. him and his friends shat on me, calling me a player, “using him”, and been around. oh but then when im all there, im controlling and dumb
idk he introduced her to his family, bought a house together, named his boat after her, spoiling her, defending her, etc?? why tf wouldn't ANY woman think that??